Shower Goes Cold: The Valve, Not the Water Heater
Run the basin tap in the same bathroom before you blame anything. If that comes out properly hot while the shower does not, your water heater is full of hot water and the fault is in the shower valve, often a plastic stop ring behind the handle that costs nothing to move. People replace whole water heaters over this.
A cold shower sends people straight to the water heater, and a good share of the time the water heater is sitting there full of hot water doing nothing wrong.
There is one test that splits this in two and it takes a minute. Do it before you spend anything, because the two halves have completely different answers and only one of them is expensive.
Before you start
What to carry: a cheap kitchen thermometer, a cup, and a screwdriver. Fifteen minutes.
Gas or electric? It matters for the tank half of this page. An electric tank has two heating elements and the lower one failing gives a very particular short burst of hot. A gas one has a single burner underneath, so it does not fail in that pattern.
Measure rather than feel. Hands are poor thermometers, especially in a cold bathroom. Run the water into a cup and put a thermometer in it.
Do not answer a cold shower by turning the water heater up to maximum. That makes every tap in the house capable of scalding in seconds, and it does not fix a shower valve that was never letting the hot through in the first place.
The test that splits it
Run the basin tap in the same bathroom
Turn the basin tap to hot only, full, and leave it for a minute. Fill a cup and measure it. Then do the same at the shower.
The tap is properly hot, the shower is not. The water heater is fine. The fault is in the shower valve, which is check 2 and is usually free.
Both go cold together, after a predictable number of minutes. That is the tank, and check 3 covers it.
Both are lukewarm from the first second. Neither of those. Look at the tank’s own thermostat setting and at the little mixing valve on the pipe leaving the top of it: the three faults that are not the heater.
Only one bathroom is affected and the rest of the house is fine. Then it is that bathroom, and again it is check 2.
The shower’s own valve
The stop ring, then the cartridge
The anti scald stop. Most modern single lever shower valves have one: a toothed plastic ring behind the handle that stops the lever short of full hot. It is set at installation, frequently set too far round, and Moen lists it as one of the reasons a shower will not get hot enough.
Moving it. Turn the water off, take the handle off, which is usually one screw under a cap. Lift the plastic ring off its splines and put it back one or two notches towards hot. Refit, turn the water on, and measure at the head before anybody uses it.
A worn cartridge. The other shower valve fault. The seals wear and cold crosses into the hot side inside the valve, so the temperature wanders, or running the shower affects the taps elsewhere. Cartridges are a stocked part and they are not expensive.
What is not a fault. A pressure balancing valve dropping the flow for a moment when somebody flushes a toilet is the valve protecting you, which is exactly what it was fitted to do.
When the tank really is the limit
How many minutes, and what shape
One short burst of hot, then cold, on an electric tank. The lower element. The top third of the tank heats and the rest does not, and it is a cheap part with a clear test: which element has failed and how to prove it.
Less hot water than you used to get, gradually. Sediment building on the bottom of the tank takes up volume that used to hold water: how much you have and how to get it out.
The first shower is fine and the second is not. That is the recovery rate rather than a fault. Rheem and A.O. Smith count about 20 gallons a shower, so a forty gallon tank is roughly two showers, not four. A.O. Smith gives 30 to 40 minutes for a gas tank to heat up again, and 60 to 90 for electric. Nothing is broken, the house simply wants more than it holds.
It changed when something else did. A rain shower head can use more than the old one did, and a new person in the house is a new shower every day. Neither is a repair.
The dip tube nobody mentions
There is one fault that produces exactly the symptom on this page and rarely gets checked.
Cold water entering a tank does not just tip in at the top. It goes down a long plastic pipe called a dip tube, which delivers it right to the bottom so it does not mix with the hot water waiting at the top.
When that tube cracks or breaks off, incoming cold arrives at the top of the tank and goes straight out of the hot outlet. The result is hot water that is never quite hot and runs out remarkably fast, on a tank whose elements and thermostats all test perfectly.
The giveaway is small white plastic flakes turning up in tap aerators and shower heads as the tube disintegrates. If you are finding those, this is your answer, and the part is cheap.
Questions people ask
How hot should a shower actually be?
Whirlpool’s manual calls 110 degrees normal shower temperature. The stop in the valve is there to keep the maximum near 120, and Whirlpool’s scald table gives a first degree burn in 1 minute at 122 degrees.
It goes cold the moment somebody flushes.
That is the pressure balancing valve doing its job. Losing the cold supply for a second would otherwise leave you under pure hot water, so it drops the flow instead.
It was fine until we changed the shower head.
A bigger head uses more water per minute, so the tank empties faster and the pipe cannot always keep up. The tank has not changed, the demand has.
Should I just turn the water heater up?
Only with a mixing valve fitted at the tank. Without one you are making every tap in the house dangerous to fix a problem that lives in one valve.
There are white bits in the shower head.
Dip tube. That is the plastic breaking up and travelling round the house, and it explains lukewarm water that disappears quickly.
Nothing anywhere in the house is hot.
Then this is the wrong page and the heater really is the place to start: the checks in order for gas and electric.
Sources: Moen "Water temperature is not HOT enough on tub shower units" and "How to Adjust the PosiTemp Temperature Limit Stop" (limit stop, one or two notches, no more than 120°F), Whirlpool Energy Smart use and care guide 318686-001 (110°F normal shower temperature, scald times, insufficient hot water causes including a defective dip tube, mixing valve), A.O. Smith hybrid heat pump water heater service handbook 321547-000 (hot water in the top third when the lower element fails), A.O. Smith "What Size Water Heater Is Right for You?" and Rheem "Understanding Water Tank Size" (about 20 gallons a shower), A.O. Smith "How Long Does It Take a Water Heater to Heat Up?" and Bradford White service manual 238-51542-00E (dip tube diluting hot water)
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